Letter from Linda

Letter from Linda Gibbons dated May 3, 2010

Greetings in our Risen and Returning Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ!

Pray this finds you well having celebrated a most holy Easter.

Thank you so much for sending the article “Freedom of Choice or Right to Life” It was astute in dismantling the false notion that killing innocents is any kind of right.

Recently I was sent an article written by Joe Bissonnette, titled, “Abortion, Conscience, Crisis and the Church” It was published in the Human Life Review. It is a telling article that is a litmus test of where we are as well as a call to action for pro-lifers and the Church.

For there to be change their needs an impetus (catalyst of urgency if you will) to bring needed tension to the issue that cannot be ignored. It happened with the apprehension of the Jews, the slavery of the blacks and the segregation of the Afro-Americans in the States. All these social aberrations fell before social conscience and reasoned to action.

Abraham Lincoln in 1858 said in part, “In my opinion, it will not cease, until a crisis shall have been reached, and passed. A house divided against itself cannot stand.”

We can no longer sing, “What will be, will be” because the death culture turned Canada on itself and the social network is coming undone at the seams. We will either rethink and turn back or slide into the abyss of euthanasia of the elderly and disabled and anyone else that would like to die. Or perhaps we’ll be spared these death throes of a society by an all out war from the hand of a just God. Maybe when the body bags pile up we’ll express our compunction with death mongerings.

There is much talk of late in the public square related to the abortion issue. Perhaps it’s indicative of a ground swell of resistance to the death dictators who would make our politicians their marionettes of evil.

Regardless we’ve seen “a few good men” soundly defeat the euthanasia bill and put to bed the play to export abortion along with Harpers Maternal health plan for 3rd world. Now we have to keep vigilant and keep the momentum growing.

All for good; all for God; Pray so.

Jesus said, “A little child shall lead them”
I am enclosing an article by a 13 year old; Elizabeth Trisler She’ll be tomorrows pro-life leader and a power to be reckoned with.

A pro-abortion leader at the U.S. March for Life lamented his “militant menopausal’s” compared to the vibrant pro-life young women. Funny, eh!

We greying post-in veterans of the cause will not take umbrage – we need someone to throw the torch to!

Thanks again for loving life!
Love in Jesus,
Linda

Recently learned about another pro-life prisoner in our midst: Mary Wagner
Please keep these women in your prayers and reach out to them to show your support by writing to them in prison!

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Forgiveness in Marriage

I like to remind the couples we work with in the marriage preparation courses that communication is the life blood of their relationship, and forgiveness is the cement.

At times, one of the individuals in the group will question this...viewing this like a “get out of jail free card” Doesn’t this unconditional forgiveness provide an opportunity for one of the spouse’s to assume they can do whatever they want, because even if it is hurtful to their spouse they “trust” that they will eventually forgive them?

Then we review the Reconciliation model, as it applies to the Sacrament of Confession. For many of the couples this model is simply a review, for others it’s an eye opening reminder of what a treasure this Sacrament is as we’ve witnessed what we like to call a “holy spirit moment” Even non-Catholics have shared with us that this model helped them to understand the sacrament, but what is most important is understanding what it truly means to forgive, especially in a marriage.

This is what we share with them.

There are four essential ingredients to attaining forgiveness. These are important in a marriage, but can also be applied to any relationship, including your relationship with God.

CONFESSION – Admitting you did something wrong and taking responsibility for your own actions.

CONTRITION – Accepting and understanding how your actions hurt/affected others.

PENANCE – Action that demonstrates how sorry you are and how you want to make up for the wrong you’ve done.

ABSOLUTION – Involves a release from the offended party, freedom and trust that this incident will not come up in future discussions or disagreements. True absolution can only be obtained through the actual sacrament of reconciliation.

No one is owed forgiveness. Forgiveness is a gift, but it is absolutely necessary in a marriage.

For further resource review a previous post titled: The Healing Power of Forgiveness.

Does there really need to be an apology in order for forgiveness to occur in marriage? What would Jesus say? Did his murderers apologize?

There is a couple who are preparing to celebrate 50 years of marriage. Over the years Chris and Sophia, have dealt with many challenges that came with migrating to a different country, physical separation early in their marriage; infidelity; financial struggles; addiction; the abuse of one of their children by another adult; supporting the children through various medical issues.

Most recently their challenges are of a different kind. Approximately 10 years ago, Chris was diagnosed with dementia. The symptoms include paranoia, hallucinations, agitation and inability to reason; he directs all this towards Sophia. Needless to say the time period leading up to a proper diagnosis was difficult on Sophia, as he accused her of awful acts that she is not capable of committing.

Lately, the dementia seems to be under control with the medication, his physical ability is deteriorating. Sophia provides constant care for Chris; he requires her assistance with his regular daily activities. Yet, he continually accuses her of the same awful acts, truly portraying his own guilt on to her.

However, she continually cares for him, even though he is verbally abusive to her. Some days she breaks down and cries, always she turns to Christ in prayer for strength to embrace her cross. Every day that she looks upon the man that she married, she sees the shell of the man she once knew and she chooses to constantly forgive him. Every day she repeats the words of Christ, “forgive him Father, for he does not know what he is doing.”

Her hope is that Christ will provide a few moments of sanity, when Chris will apologize for all that he has put them through. Not for her own desire to hear his apology, but because she can’t imagine the pain it must cause Chris to believe his wife is capable of doing these things to him.

In today’s world, this type of constant forgiving is rarely heard of. Yet this couple does live among us, providing a constant example of what it means to forgive within a marriage. It is the forgiveness that is the cement in this marriage, a house built not on sand, but on solid rock.

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The Hope of the Pro-Life Mission

Letter from Linda Gibbons – Pro – Life Prisoner

March 2, 2009

“ Hope is... Faith holding out its hand in the dark” George Iles

Considering the Bible says we should be ready to give a reason for the hope that is within us, I wanted to share some thoughts on the hope our pro-life mission embodies while we are in the front of the abortuaries.

Pope Benedict in his Encyclical on Christian hope wrote, “From the hope of these people who have been touched by Christ, hope has risen for others who were living in darkness and without hope.”

We too, come in faith and in hope that those who have allowed themselves to be made prisoners of a death culture might be set free. (“Abortion represents the absence of freedom and the presence of bondage in an absolute sense.”)

It is not persuasive words that free these despairing mothers, rather our concerned presence with them gives them cause to hope. In us they might encounter Gods providence moving towards them, offering them relief from abandoned hope.

They can exchange the “ashen apples” of procured abortion for hope that is stronger than death.

We also acknowledge the hand of providence that places us there. When God is at work it is little to do with our efforts and everything to do with fulfilling his purposes and plans. His testimony of life is the bedrock for solid hope.

Our allegiance to life is unequivocal and we don’t allow pervasiveness of the present tyranny against unborn life to deter us or cause to relinquish our hope.
Pope Benedict warns, “If we cannot hope for more than is effectively attainable at any given time our lives will soon be without hope.”

In this paradox of becoming as the Bible describes, “prisoners of hope” we divest ourselves of liberty that the unborn’s intrinsic liberty might be made manifest. To not accept any liberty which the unborn cannot have is to insist on their equal rights before the law.

To be authentically human is to take up our civic responsibility to restore cohesion in the human family and build up the foundation of justice for the next generation so that they are free to be born and have their rightful inheritance of love. Our hope bears all trials and impositions’ looking to the future in faith, believing something worthwhile is being accomplished.

One wrote, “the best use of life is to spend it for something that outlasts it” We have a charge to keep to the next generation.

As the bird sensing the dawn commences to sing; while it’s yet dark our hope resonates with a lasting love that will be felt in generations to come.

Wishing you a most blessed and holy Easter.

Love in Christ the King,
Linda

Pro-Life Martyr in our Midst

In 2008, we learned about a Pro-life grandmother, Linda Gibbons, who is imprisoned for taking a stand outside an abortion clinic. There is a court order that prohibits any pro-life activity within 60 feet of this clinic.

You can learn more about her here: http://www.lifesitenews.com/gibbons/When we learned she was to spend Christmas in custody, we as a family decided to reach out to her, we sent her a simple Christmas greeting card to assure her of our prayers and encourage her in this mission of speaking for the unborn.

This was her response:

December 22, 2008

Now thanks be unto God, which always causes us to triumph in Christ...II Corinthians 2:14

Greetings in the Princes of Life, Pray this finds you well and rejoicing in al He is this Holy season.

Thank you for the lovely card of Mother + Child, quite lovely. It was so kind of you to remember me at this busy time of year and thanks too for your loyal prayers.
What glad news you bring me about 441 babies saved because of the 40 days of fasting and prayer project! What fasting! What prayers!

It was Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Who said, “Injustice must be rooted out by strong persistent and determined action.”

Our ex-Prime Minister, Mr. Chretien said Canada is at peace with abortion. There can be no peace where there is no justice. Till we return protection to innocent life in the womb, O Canada, the bell tolls for thee!

My mail which I am calling “The Canadian Response” speaks of better things – a country that stands on guard for each and every child.

So Fight the Good Fight!

All God’s Blessings and supply in 2009!

Love in the Christ Child,
Linda